Let's Pray for The Philippines

 This past Friday November 8th, the central Philippines was hit by the monstrous Typhoon Haiyan. CNN.com reports that Typhoon Haiyan touched land with wind gusts of 195 mph, destroying everything in its path with storm surges and enormous waves.  

The stories of death, devastation and need continue to multiply.  Nydailynews.com reports that an estimated 2,000 to 2,500 lives have been lost and 660,000 are presently homeless.  According to nbcnews.com America began sending relief efforts as early as Sunday.  Other American armed forces assistance have been dispatched by air and sea and have arrived or are due to arrive in 2-3 days.

Let's unite and pray for the people of The Philippines.  In addition to your prayers, you can provide some monetary relief as well.  Visit www.redcross.org and donate today.  

Lord We Pray!

Happy Veteran's Day!

Happy Veteran's Day to all the men and women who served and continue serve our country.  Many of us take our freedom for granted.  We are so blessed to live the way we do.  I take this moment to thank each and everyone of you.  Your past and present sacrifices have afforded us liberties not seen in other nations around the world.  Thank you.  We salute you!

He's Baaaaack!

Okay so... I'm going to start writing again.  I've been inspired to do so... Again!  Stay tuned.  :)

Good Read: Fallen by Karin Slaughter

Wow. I can't believe it's been over a year since I last blogged about something. Geez! It's not that I don't have anything to say, (c'mon son, Me not have anything to say? Really?), it's just that this year has been filled with many events. Some tremendously sad ones, but also some incredibly happy ones. At times I've caught myself calling this year the "bi-polar year" of my life, but I'll save all the details for another day.

The funny thing when I come to think about it is that I have several pending blogs that I just haven't posted yet. I just haven't had a chance to sit, clear my mind, and get down to it. But today I decided that I had to take a minute and post a quick blog about an awesome book I just read. Fallen by Karin Slaughter.

Fallen is the best book I've read in a long while! If you're the suspense/thriller type, this book is definitely, and I mean definitely for you. On Amazon.com, readers gave this book a 4 star rating. What? Someone must have stolen that 5th star cause dammit, this book deserves it! Well that's how I feel anyway if you really wanna know about it (Holy crap! I just sounded like Holden Caulfield from The Catcher in the Rye by J. D. Salinger. A 1950's classic that was banned from school's for a while. A must read! But I'll leave that for another blog lol). Anywho, this is the first book I've read by Karin Slaughter but believe you me it sure won't be my last. Fallen. Stop messing around and go get it! Trust me. I don't play around with good sh*t! That just came out wrong. Wait. Came out? Damn I did it again. In the words of my friend Angel Montalvo, "Sea mi vida gris!" ("May my life be gray!"). It's just a saying folks. I like the everchanging colors in my life if you really wanna know about it. hee-hee :).

Here's an excerpt:

There's no police training stronger than a cop's instinct. Faith Mitchell's mother isn't answering her phone. Her front door is open. There's a bloodstain above the knob. Her infant daughter is hidden in a shed behind the house. All that the Georgia Bureau of Investigations taught Faith Mitchell goes out the window when she charges into her mother's house, gun drawn. She sees a man dead in the laundry room. She sees a hostage situation in the bedroom. What she doesn't see is her mother. . . .

Now tell me that didn't tickle your insides and make your nipples hard? Ok, maybe it didn't tickle your insides but your nipples are definitely hard right now. Aren't they? No? Is it just me? Damn, it's freaking cold in this office. Now go get it!!! lol.

Good Read: Still Alice by Lisa Genova

Hmmm... I can't seem to remember where I left my keys... Where did I park again? I know it was between Unionport Road and Olmstead Avenue, but I can't seem to find my car... Wait a minute, did I just miss my stop? Man, what's going on with me today? OMG! Another umbrella lost and a new charity gift for a wet straphanger who left his or her umbrella at home! That sh#$ wasn't even mine... I forgot to buy the freaking milk again! I knew I was forgetting something!

Has this ever happened to you? You know, a mental lapse? Where for a split second you're completely disoriented, and forget what you were doing or what you were about to do? If this occurs between the ages of 20-50, you just shrug it off as not being focused. You blame it on the stress, your depression, or lack of sleep. If you're between the ages of 55-65, you blame it on your advanced aged status and the fact that it's normal, for a person of advanced age, to forget certain things. If your above 65 years of age, you automatically lean on the fact that at that age, a person's memory is suppose to fail, and that being disoriented, incoherent, and extremely forgetful is totally normal as well. But what if on a hunch, you decide to visit a neurologist and after an extensive evaluation, the MD enters the room and says, "I'm sorry to tell you this, but after several testing, and analysis, my staff and I believe that your memory loss is not due to stress, depression, your menopausal stage, or your advanced age. We believe you're suffering from Alzheimer's Disease."

According to Wikipedia, Alzheimer's Disease (AD) is known as the most common form of dementia. It's an incurable, degenerative and terminal neurological disease, generally diagnosed in people over 65 years of age. Reports indicate that in the early stages, the most commonly observed symptom is the inability of acquiring new memories.

"As the disease advances, symptoms include confusion, irritability and aggression, mood swings, language breakdown, long-term memory loss, and the general withdrawal of the sufferer as their senses decline. Gradually, bodily functions are lost, ultimately leading to death... The mean life expectancy following diagnosis is approximately seven years. Fewer than three percent of individuals live more than fourteen years after diagnosis." (Wikipedia)

The disease slowly but surely begins to progress, and works its way through the brain suffocating healthy neurons and killing them off. What did that neuron hold? Your child's name? Your address? A special someone's birthday? The feeling of Love?

Unfortunately, Alzheimer's doesn't only affect individuals 65 years of age and older. In several less-common cases, individuals less than 65 can suffer from what is known as Early-Onset Alzheimer's Disease. The majority of these folks are in their 50's or early 60's, however, in very rare instances, people in their 30's and 40's have been found to have early onset AD as well. Studies indicate that approximately half of the cases of early onset AD are Familial Alzheimer's disease, which means that there was a genetic predisposition that lead to the disease.

Can you imagine how debilitating this would be to a person's family, friends, caregiver, co-workers, and wife? Well I don't have to imagine it. For several years now, I've been able to witness the incredible toll early onset AD can cause on a family from a first hand basis. Although I've considered myself an outsider looking in, I've always felt part of their family. Yes, I've been blessed with that privilege. Which family is it that I speak of? The Peralta family and Mr. Freddy Peralta Sr., who has Alzheimer's.

The incredible thing is that when you spend some time with them, the mom, Mrs. Ana Peralta, a hard working self-made business woman, or the eldest son Freddy Peralta Jr., aka Freddy P, or Alex Peralta aka Arod, a humble man and dear brother to me, or Alana Peralta, my P.P.I.C (Party Partner in Crime), aka my Cupcake, you're immediately moved by they're strength, and perseverance. As an outsider, I've been incredibly touched by their faith, unity and love. They don't know this but, in secret, they are some of my heroes (cue the "Hero" song by Nickelback).

In Still Alice, a novel by Lisa Genova a Harvard Grad Neuroscientist, we visit the incredible life and story of Dr. Alice Howland, a 50 year old tenured professor of Cognitive Psychology at Harvard University who's struck with the cruel symptoms of this devastating disease. Dr. Howland, a highly regarded and respected professor in her field, wife and mother, who suddenly begins to loose a grip on the one thing she had so much control over, and knew so much about. Her own mind.

Author Lisa Genova does an amazing job of telling the story not from an outsider's point of view, as many authors and journalists have done in the past, but from the point of view of the innocent victim Dr. Alice Howland herself. As you turn the pages you'll see yourself becoming Alice, suffering with her and her family, feeling her pain and stress, and even feeling some of the degenerative symptoms.

If you know someone who suffers from Alzheimer's or have a friend who does, or have heard or read of people who do, this is definitely a great read and recommendation. For families struck by this awful disease, it may bring further understanding as to what goes on in the mind of the diseased. It also may answer several unaswered questions, bring clarity to some of the confusion, hope when you thought there was none, and allow you to realize that the loved one who you once shared so many things with, is really "still" there.

Here's what other readers have said about Still Alice.

"Heartbreaking real... So real, in fact, that it kept me from sleeping for several nights. I couldn't put it down... Still Alice is a story that must be told"

-Brunonia Barry, New York Times best selling author of The Lace Reader

"After I read Still Alice, I wanted to stand up and tell a train full of strangers, 'You have to read this book.'..."

-Beverly Beckham, The Boston Globe


For Freddy Sr., Ana, Freddy Jr., Alex & Alana Peralta. Stay strong. I love you guys, and I'm here for you.

Good Read: Hellhound On His Trail by Hampton Sides

His name was Martin Luther King Jr (b. January 15th, 1929-d. April 4th, 1968) and he's most famously known for his nation-changing work as an activist and his role in the Civil Rights Movement of the mid-to late 60's. As I rewind the hands of time, I can recall my days in elementary, junior high school, high school, and even through college, when my teachers would take a moment and reflect on the life of this man. An African-American hero, baptist minister and Nobel Peace Prize recipient, who became selfless in the fight against racial discrimination and racial segregation.

As the years passed by, we spoke and learned of his victories, his passion, his focus on non-violent demonstrations, and his amazing Dream. But oddly enough, and for obvious reasons of course, we never studied the other side of the coin. The fact that Dr. King was a man of flesh and bone, who suffered failures, self-absorbed depression, extra marital affairs, battled a smoking habit and was in constant fear for his life.

We've also learned almost nothing about his "assassin", James Earl Ray. I say "assassin", because there are still several conspiracy theories out there that claim that the "powers that be", and not Ray, had something to do with it. It was a public known fact that Dr. King was tremendously disliked by the then Director of the F.B.I, J. Edgar Hoover, who headed the agency from 1924-1972 (when he passed away) and had an ongoing obsession with the person of Dr. King and his mission. But if for only a moment, we step away from the theories and focus on the facts of the crime, we find ourselves face-to-face with the convicted felon James Earl Ray.

James Earl Ray (b. March 1oth 1928-d.April 23-1998), was the man ultimately convicted of Dr. King's assassination. Besides the fact that he died in jail, known to the world as the murderer of America's Hero, his life's résumé wasn't worth much praise either. Ray was a high school drop-out, World War II veteran, who was convicted of his first crime (burglary) in 1949, and who continued to live the life of a felon, and then escaped convict, until his capture for the assassination of Dr. King on June 8th, 1968.


In Hellhound On His Trail: The Stalking of Martin Luther King Jr., and The International Hunt for His Assassin by acclaimed best-selling author Hampton Sides, Sides provides a unique and detailed report and tells the story of this famed assassination through the eyes of the killer himself. Using the facts surrounding this case-which are plenty-and his knowledge on the life of Ray, Sides paints a vivid picture of the things that could've occurred in the months leading to the tragic event of April 4th, and dissects the person of James Earl Ray. He allows us to visit and enter the mind of this fleeing felon. What's his motive? Did he work alone? Was his work being funded by a segregationist organization? Was Hoover behind this? How about George Wallace, the ex-governor of Alabama and pro-segregationist? Was J.E.R realistically capable of planning and committing this crime on his own?

The murder scene. Using police reports, autopsy reports, facts from evidence and memoir accounts from folks that were present on that day, Sides positions the reader behind a hidden camera lens in the scene of the crime. The reader sees the trajectory of the bullet, the entrance and exit wound, the position of Dr. Kings body on the second floor balcony of the Lorraine Hotel in Memphis Tennessee, and the first response team's attempt to save Dr. King's life. The reader can be easily impacted and emotionally disturbed by how close to the crime Sides' depiction makes you feel.

The final focus of this novel however, and the main reason it differs from other books and reports off this tragic day, is on the international chase of J.E.R, the murderer. A wild-goose chase covering thousands of miles and involving law enforcing groups from Memphis, the United Kingdom, and the F.B.I.

Looking for a page turner? Interested in some American History? Want to get away from that boring book your BFF recommended? Give Hellhound On His Trail a look. You won't be disappointed. I give it two thumbs up!

MAXWELL + New Ablum= Blacksummer's night--->Drops July 7th!!!

I'm hyped!!!! Believe it or not, there's still good music out there. I've been a fan of Maxwell since he first came out, and I've been anticipating this, his fourth studio album for a while. My main "groovy man" is realeasing Blacksummer's night on July 7th, and I'm definitely picking this up in person. The cool thing about this release is that they have a Deluxe edition, CD/DVD combo, which amazon.com has for $11.99; not bad. Although he has a new look to him, since he cut his hair, he's still the same soulful dude from back-in-the-day. There's no Samson curse here. If you're a fan of cool, smooth, sexy, and real baby-making music, you won't go wrong with Mr. Woooooh-whoo! lol.

Here's a little excerpt from his upcoming album. Two songs, "Bad Habits" & "Pretty Wings".

"Bad Habits"



"Pretty Wings"

Maxwell - New Music - More Music Videos

And here's a little somethin', somethin' from back in the day, a couple of selections that are the reason I call him Mr. Wooooh-whooo! lol.

"This Woman's Work", personally the greatest love song Maxwell has ever done. It's been on so many movie soundtracks, that i've lost count. And let's not even talk about the video...Too soulful... Too Deep...

Maxwell - New Music - More Music Videos

"Ascension (Don't Ever Wonder): MTV Unplugged". Although I like the studio version better, I love how he jazzed it up a bit for this live performance. Music for the soul man... Music for the soul.



As they say in the business world, "the best salesmen is a satisfied customer".

Blacksummer's Night by Maxwell. In stores July 7th. Go get it!